Parenting Articles
- May 2011
Article Archive
Help your
preschooler build a stronger body this summer
Know how
to discuss sad events, difficult topics with your child
Read-alouds
help you educate, bond with your preschooler
Make character
education a priority for your entire family
Help your preschooler build a stronger body this summer
Sometimes it is easy to overlook the
importance of motor skills in school success. But a strong
and healthy body is the first step in helping your child
learn. Strong muscles, bones and joints are the “drivers”
of your preschooler’s motor skills.
In most areas,
summer time offers longer days and nicer weather. Use them
to your family’s advantage and get moving toward that stronger
body.
Here are more reasons to move:
- Less sickness, better posture and more endurance
equals school success.
- Exercise decreases stress. With exercise,
your preschooler is happier and calmer and can cope
better with school and life.
- Exercise helps keep the excess pounds away.
A child who keeps a healthy weight is more like to be
an adult who keeps a healthy weight.
- Better sleep at night means a rested child
who is ready to learn.
- Run, walk and hike.
- Swim.
- Ride a bike or scooter.
- Play a sport, like shooting hoops outside.
- Play a game with a friend, like hopscotch
or a jump-rope contest.
Reprinted with
permission from the May 2011 issue of Parents make the
difference!® (Early Childhood Edition) newsletter.
Copyright © 2011 The Parent Institute®, a division of NIS,
Inc. Source: The White House and The U.S. Departments of
Agriculture, Education and Health and Human Services, ”Move
everyday!” Let’s Move!
www.letsmove.gov/kids-step-1.php.
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Know how to discuss sad events, difficult
topics with your child
Not so many years ago, it wasn’t too
difficult for parents to “shield” a child from information
the child may not have been ready for. Today, though, we
have a 24-hour news cycle. We have the Internet available
on an ever-growing number of devices. Shielding a child
is getting close to impossible.
So as a parent, you should know how
to talk to a child about situations she may see and hear
about. Here are some tips:
- Get your child’s version of events. A young child
may hear about a disaster happening far away. But she
may think it happened close to her home. So just providing
your child with the truth may be enough to calm her
concerns.
- Give age-appropriate information. Your child does
not need every detail. ”Yes, the man on the news
said a lot of people have been hurt. It is very sad
that things like this happen sometimes. All the
adults who love you are always working to keep you
safe.”
- Allow your child a chance to help if this is appropriate.
“Yes, these are tough times and some people don’t
have enough to eat. We have some extra canned goods
in our pantry. Would you like to go with me to the
food bank to drop them off?”
Reprinted with permission from the May 2011
issue of Parents make the difference!® (Early Childhood
Edition) newsletter. Copyright © 2011 The Parent Institute®,
a division of NIS, Inc. Source: ”Talking with Kids About
News, Strategies for Talking and Listening,” PBS Parents,
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Read-alouds help you educate, bond
with your preschooler
Research shows reading with your child
is among the best ways to prepare him for school success.
The upcoming summer season is an ideal time to establish
a daily reading habit. This will start your child off on
the right track when he begins school again next fall.
To make reading aloud a great experience
for you and your child:
- Take a moment with your child to check out the book.
What is this book about? Can we get some ideas from
the picture on the cover? Who is the author? Who is
the illustrator?
- Read a few pages and then pause to ask your child
a question or two. A great question to ask is: “What
do you think will happen next in this story?” This encourages
your child to make a prediction. Predicting is an important
skill for reading comprehension (understanding what
we read).
- Make an effort to hold your child’s interest and
attention. One way to do this is to use a different
“voice” for the different characters. This is another
good way to involve your child in the book. Ask him,
“What do you think this character sounds like? Can you
make your voice do the character’s voice?”
- Is your child heading to first grade in the fall?
If so, he may be able to read some of the words in the
book. Or even if he is still in preschool, he may know
a few sight words. Encourage him to point to a word
if he knows it. Then give him the opportunity to read
it.
Reprinted with permission from the May 2011
issue of Parents make the difference!® (Early Childhood
Edition) newsletter. Copyright © 2011 The Parent Institute®,
a division of NIS, Inc. Source: ”Make the Most of Reading
Aloud,” International Reading Association,
www.readwritethink.org/parent-afterschool-resources/tips-howtos/make-most-reading-aloud-30565.html.
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Make character education a priority
for your entire family
Good character isn’t easy to define.
But doing so reveals what you want to teach your child.
Ask yourself, “What does our family value most?” Then find
ways to encourage these traits. Simple, effective approaches
include:
- Be a role model. Kids learn from what parents
say and do. Start by explaining a value. “It’s important
to be polite--to have good manners. So we say nice
words like please and thank you.” Then follow through.
”Can you please put on your coat? Thank you!”
- Set expectations. Remember that kids need plenty
of instruction, practice and praise. “You said please!
What beautiful manners.” Use gentle reminders when
necessary. “Sammy gave you a turn. What should
you say to her?”
- Look for examples. There are many children’s
books about honesty, generosity, perseverance and
other characteristics. Point out real-life examples,
too. “Uncle Tim gave you a new book. That was generous!”
“Brent told his mom he took a cookie without asking.
That was honest.” “Your class sent you a
get-well card. How kind!”
Reprinted with permission from the May 2011
issue of Parents make the difference!® (Early Childhood
Edition) newsletter. Copyright © 2011 The Parent Institute®,
a division of NIS, Inc. Source: Denise D. Witmer, The
Everything Parent’s Guide to Raising a Successful Child,
ISBN: 1-59337-043-1, Adams Media.
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